Wednesday, July 27, 2005

Went to a garden party.......

Since my Husband does not wear a wedding ring of any sorts, he unintentionally gets mistaken for a single guy, now this does not bug me, I am secure in myself and I am secure in my marriage and hell, even at 46 he's still HOT! Just why is it, that men don't know when they are being hit on .......a woman can tell just by the way a man looks at her, long before he gives her his best come'on.....a woman just knows.

Now my Darling Husband doesn't seem to pick up on this, but I do......sometimes I sit back and watch how another woman, whether she be known to me or a complete stranger interact with my Husband......I can't help it, its part of my nature to study human behavior. Now any woman with a shred of decency knows to back off of another woman's husband, but for those few women out there who don't care to follow the rules of "This man's taken" will get their reality check.

I am not a jealous person by any means.......I don't fly off in a blind rage whenever another woman talks, flirts or checks out my husband. What I do have a problem with are the women who still throw themselves at him after finding out about me and the kids......A woman knows what another woman is thinking about long before a man does.

While at a party some time ago, I was introduced to a woman and her husband as she was also introduced to me and mine. I am a social person, I get along well with others and usually find fast friendships, and when I do meet someone that doesn't care for me I can tell they made up their minds prior to getting to know me first and most of the time it is a problem they have with themselves and not with me in general.....that has happened periodically through out my whole life..... It's old hat.

Now this woman is older than me,  probably somewhere around my husbands age even though she herself is married to a much older man. I begin to notice how she hangs on my Husbands every word, then I notice how she is constantly at his side, so much a girlfriend of mine who was also at this party, suggests I better go mark my territory, cuz somebody else is sniffing around! lol Normally I would, just in case the woman had mistaken him for a single man....but this woman and I were already introduced.....I'm thinking I'm not going to like her very much. While on my Husbands other side at dinner I hear her tell her Husband I know your tired honey, so why don't you just go on homeafter dinner and I will meet you there later, I want to stay and mingle for a little while longer...... he silently obeys her after dinner was finished and says his good-byes.

I join my husband outside for an after dinner cigar which I occasionally partake in once in a while and who comes out as if she is looking for him, why it's my Husbands new best friend.......let's call her Elvira for namesake ok??? ok! lol He still had no clue......I had a clue though something like Col. Mustard..... in the Library...... with a candlestick! lol Was I going to have to hose her down with the freaking garden hose or what?

Yup....you guessed it......continued tomorrow! lol

7 comments:

imshadowraven2 said...

when you write your first book make sure i get a copy

gdireneoe said...

Oh dang!  No fair!  You and I need to sit w/ a good bottle of wine and exchange hon'...LOL.  I SO know what you are talking about.  I had a similar experience just last week...flirtin' arse...sniffin' around my man little hoochie... ;)  C.  http://journals.aol.com/gdireneoe/thedailies

psychfun said...

Are you this much a tease with men! LOL! :-) You do it quite well!

Psychfun

happysunshien said...

omgoodness..my man does not recognize any of the signs either...lmao...by the time he figures it?  There is one sleeve coming outta the shirt...

We both used to work in a club....and it would be so humourous...to hear the other bouncers say...dude shes checking you out?  and my hubby who?  man I got a woman....who the hell needs another one...lmao....

kelly

missundazstood58 said...

MY man does not realize when women are hitting on him but sure but not least I do so I zoom right on her she gets the drift without a word from me and most men do not wear a wedding band as alot of women knows for work and danger at work I love your journal and your very way put in perceptive way and by the way my husband is 58 and HE IS HOTTER THEN A FIRE CRACKER.

imshadowraven2 said...

ok ok im waiting were oh were is part 2............lol Robin

sunnyside46 said...

oh how funny!
Back in the day when my husband & i made the social bar scene a lot, wehn we were in our early 30's, it used to really get me hot for other women to flirt with him, not mad!
marti