As I wrote in an earlier entry(2 entries down) about the "Phone Call" for my son, it was quiet for a few days, that was until yesterday. A boy passed my son a note in school from the girl that had her friends call him the other night. In the note she apologized for the phone call and explained to him that she had some down time during dance class and since she told her friends all about him at dance class they decided to call him. Two more of her friends wrote brief notes in this same message to my Son as it was passed along, and it reading it myself it sounded like they liked him too! A few things about if you want to meet me I'll be here at such and such a time and so on......I don't think Courtney would appreciate the innuendoes her friends left for my Son if she even was aware of them.
He wrote back and very nicely told her that he liked another girl and to please not call or write him again and to have her friends not call him anymore either. He said, "Mom I didn't want to hurt her feelings by telling her that he didn't like her and I didn't want to be mean either" so the letter was very neat and very brief. (he has beautiful penmanship and he's very articulate in speech and writing) I was very proud that he took her feelings into account and wanted to let her down gently. Then the next 'NOTE" came.
The next note from her stated, "Your note to me sounded like a freakin English paper! and you wrote like a girl!" then the next line floored me.........she wrote,"I don't care if you don't like me, I'm going to still like you and I'm going to have all my friends call you and bug you too!" Now Momma is sitting here thinking, "Oh bring it on little girl!" lol She has no idea how Mothers feel about their sons! lol
My Son was devastated.....he said Mom, "I wasn't mean to her, I just wanted her and her friends to leave me alone and then she attacks me in this note." (I know very grown up of him) But now he's angry and wants to tell her exactly why he doesn't like her.......This girl has no idea what she just got herself into! lol.......She doesn't know he has 3 older sisters! lol They are helping him plot his next strategic move...........
Poor girl is not going to know what hit her! lol lol lol But after her last note to my son I no longer feel sorry for her....he tried to do the right thing and she chose not to accept it. I wonder what her parents would think of that note??? lol