Thursday, April 26, 2007

FOOD FIGHT!!! lol

Another late night talk, face to face with My Jim.....This man knows me so well! lol lol lol

Recently my Brother made a total ass of himself at my SIL's expense while out in a very nice restaurant in the Burbs of Chicago...let's just say his temper overshot his table manners and somehow the Woman that was sitting behind my SIL ended up wearing my SIL's dinner...let me digress for a moment....

When I started therapy over 13 years ago....I was asked if mental illness ran in the family...sucha loaded question for this crazy extended family of mine....I said, "Let's just put it this way...I'm the only one ready to admit that fact right now!" lol lol lol And so far I am the only one that has ever sought help to heal childhood wounds....among other things.... so, two years of therapy, two years of Prozac and I'm all better now! lol lol lol

So while my Brother was apologizing to this poor woman who ended up being target practice for the night....My Brother and my SIL took the fight home....none of my business...they both choose to stay together...so therefor deal with each other.

So I am laying in bed with Jim the other night letting that scenario play over and over in my head ( I just recently learned about it via the SIL) and I asked Jim..."What would you have done if someone threw their dinner and it accidentally hit me?" He is very protective of me....always has been, but then again he knows me so well....so after I see a smirk cross his face I said, "What is so funny Pal?" He said, "I would have had to go over there and peel you off of him!!" I laughed so hard it hurt because that would be sooooo true!!!


By the time Jim would have reacted I would have been all over that man! lol lol lol Let's just say my reaction time is just a wee bit quicker than my Jims but then again so is my temper! lol lol lol

110 comments:

kirkbyj05 said...

I reckon you would have 'shared' the meal with the 'thrower' very well Kim....Lol!
I can just picture the  imagined scenario now....Lol!   Jeanie

brandyp0509 said...

LOL, I definitely would be on someone's head for pelting me with food, it would be an all out brawl that's for sure.  Hugs, B

dklars said...

I  think I"d be in "shock" over the situation and sit there with my mouth hanging open, increduously.  I'm so not the fighting kind.  He better have paid for our meal, too!
~~Kath~~

rayne1123 said...

LOL!!!  THATS TO FUNY.  I WOULD HAVE BEEN ALL OVER HIM AS WELL.  I TRY TO BE A LADY BUT IN TIMES LIKE THAT I FORGET AND LOSE MY MANNERS ALL TOGETHER
HUGS
NOELLE

psychfun said...

Oh that is just too funny! He knows you so well...and that is so lovely! :-)

lisa41076 said...

Kim, Jim sounds like a keeper !!!!!!!!!! Hugs Lisa

dwhee70041 said...

Kim,
There is no better way to start out the day.  Thanks for the laugh this morning.  I hope you feeling good this morning.
David

ajquinn354 said...

Kim, just love your sense of humor and strongness, guess I see alot of me in your way of dealing with all that life gives us....it is what will get us through anything that touches our lives......my personal motto has always been "No One Or Nothing Will Get Me Down" and it really works for me and I believe that it is also your motto dear.   Have a good day, hope you enjoyed your jammie day yesterday. Arlene (AJ)

madcobug said...

That was a cute answer that Jim gave you LOL. Helen

ldybutterfly1128 said...

Kim, what a blessing to check my email and see that you posted a comment on my blog.  Your blog is such a blessing to me.  Thank you for your wonderful sense of humor.  Your stories are perfect in their simplicity, wit, and charm!  No need to ever mince words.  The truth is what people need and WANT to hear.  You keep doing what you're doing.  There is no way that this cancer can beat you!  I will continue to pray for you.  I hope you're feeling well today.  Battle on, Pink Warrior!   Love, Jamie  

P.S. Yes, I am the Jamie that donated to the Y-Me Foundation.  We have got to find a cure for this dreaded disease!  And I know you're just the person to get it out there for people to sit up and take notice!  God bless you, Kim!

mosie1944 said...

I can't imagine throwing food at a spouse in a public place.  Wow!

gosso23 said...

Thanks for the laugh. You are so funny. I have no idea what I would do if I had food hit me. lol...I would probably just do the verbal attack. lol
have a great day!
Trish

rainy35 said...

You are so funny!  I couldn't imagine throwing a plate of food at hubby in public or at home!  But yeah my reaction would be like yours!  LOL
Hugs,
Dana
http://jounrals.aol.com/rainy35/RoadToSuccess

randlprysock said...

LOL I can just see this happening!!  Have a happy day!  Hugs,
Lisa

pharmolo said...

Flying plates warning in order lolol

xomywayox said...

Great to have someone so close and special to you. And to know exactly when that can of wip-ass is coming. LoL

Brenda

gandsbrock said...

You have GOT to add a spew warning to the top of these stories!  Your DH really knows you well, doesn't he?  LOL!
Stephanie

deshelestraci said...

YOu are one funny and fiesty woman!  LOL
Traci

dplkjl said...

I finished reading your entry and the first vision I had was you behind bars with a smirk on your face and the next vision was a hot tempered food throwing man in the hospital, bandaged like a mummy!
Funny story!  
-Kelly

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hsauls said...

Reminds me of the time when I was about ten months pregnant with my second child and we were at a toy store at the mall with our (then) three and a half year old firstborn. I guess I was about... 22.... and barely able to move... when some kid decided he wanted the toy my kid was playing with and slapped my kid across the face to get it... before my (then) husband realized what was happening I had this other child suspended in midair giving him a good case of shaken baby syndrome... my (then) husband had to peel the kid out of my hands. I'm not quick tempered but I'm no shrinking violet when it comes to defending my rights... *snicker*
Hmmm... food fight in a restaurant... that's one level of dysfunction that I've managed to avoid thus far.
*hugs*
heather

codenmgrlnxtdoor said...

wow. you are a woman of true strength and i completely respect you. i support breast cancer awareness month and i must have a closet full of those ribbons. anyways, i really enjoy reading your blog. come read mine--sister's blog! it's prolly not nearly as amazing as yours, but i think you might enjoy it.

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tendernoggle said...

lmao...lmao....lmao....Oh my gosh.......Oh honey....thank, thank, thank, you for giving me that laugh!!!!!!!!!! I soooooooo needed it tonight!!!!! AND tell your husband thank you too~!!!!
I could just see you doing it too!!!!! lmao.....AND you know what??? I would too!!! lmao!
love ya girlfriend,
carlene

happysunshien said...

lmao...we were in a local bar one night....a large bar...and my best friend was there with us and so was an ex boyfriend of hers....He called her the "C" word several times...and I intercepted him at some point in the night and tried to reason with him...calmly telling him that we were all just trying to have a good time and could he please save his angriness for another night when it was not my birthday... :)  He then proceeded to call me the "C" word and when he did?  My right hand went up to slap him and he blocked it....before he could get a good hold on my arm?  I had popped him with my other hand...I slapped him so hard that he couldnt hear for 2 days (so i heard..lol..) When the bouncers alerted my hubby that I had just slapped someone hard enough to leave a mark all the way across his right cheek and his ear was red? and it was a man?  All he said was "ok go stop her if you can and I will go get the car and pull it around to the front door..." :)  and you know what?  DAMN IT FELT GOOD TO SLAP HIM!  And it is one of our favorite "stories"...lol...when she and her hubby argue?  I always as her..." Want me to smack him for ya?"  If he had laid a hand on me, no doubt Wayne would have hurt him...and he knew it....lol....but they would have had to pull me off him first...lol...for Wayne to get to him....oh and btw i had been drinking tequila all night and was feeling pretty much 10 ft tall and bullet proof....lol

swferstl said...

That's the Irish fightin' spirit! Heave ho, girl! Keep it comin'!
hugs, sher (wunzuponatime)

princesssaurora said...

It sounds like you compliment each other beautifully!  LOL

be well,
Dawn

ps... I'll be tubin' with ya!!!

inafrnz247 said...

omg... we would have so much fun together... hehe

(((((((((((Kim)))))))))))

sunnyside46 said...

it's usually better to let the woman handle it anyway...less testosterone.
Marti

emilynblanton said...

hi kim, i just recently started my own private journal, and of course looked over to the main journals.  Your title caught my eye and  i checked it out, and now i must say i am checking how you are doing at least once a week.  know that you definately touch peoples' lives just by sharing what is going on in your day.  it always brings a smile to my face to imagine you with your friends etc... i am pulling for you and know that this is going to be in remission and be done with.  how lucky your kids are to see such an amazing and strong woman!! i wish you lived here in california, i would ask you to come in to where i work  so i could give you a pampering facial! ...best of luck for your fabulous future...emily

ajquinn354 said...

Hi Kim, haven't seen any post from you for a day or so, so just dropping in to say I'm thinking of you dear, hope you are doing alright, enjoy the weekend and don't do anything I wouldn't,  hmmm, that leaves the door wide open, lol. Arlene (AJ)

olachiaclan said...

Kim, it does my heart good to hear some laughter in your post. It sounds as if Jim is the best medicine for you. Keep it up.
Christina
http://journals.aol.com/olachiaclan/the-uniboob-club/

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gaboatman said...

Kim
I just came from  Mary's and wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sam

happysunshien said...

just came from Mary's and wanted to let you know...I am thinking about you!!!

Email me your snail mail address (if you are comfortable with that) I have something I want to send ya...

love ya!

Kelly

scotthlori said...

Just read Mary's entry ...

Praying for you girl!!!!

LORI

swmpgrly said...

lol I bet that was a night to remember.

jckfrstross said...

just came from Marys. Keeping you in prayer:) i have added you to my alerts so i will be back:)

Deb

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ldybutterfly1128 said...

Kim, I am praying for you. Please stay tough, girl.  You can do this! Please write again as soon as you get home from the hospital. You will be missed until then, my friend.  Fight on, Pink Warrior!! Fight on!!  Love, Jamie

rainy35 said...

Just came from Mary's journal.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.  Keep up the fight!
Hugs,
Dana
http://journals.aol.com/rainy35/RoadToSuccess

krspkrmmom said...

Just came from Mary's place--praying for you!  Hope everything goes ok.

Annie =)

winivere2002 said...

Notified of recent update. You've never left my prayer list.
Win =.)

jcole16757 said...

Thinking of you!  Keep that fighting spirit!

millieukgirl said...

You are in my thoughts, just heard the news form Just Mary's journal.  Know that you are so loved here in J~Land and we are routing for you.  Stay strong.  Hugs, Millie.

olachiaclan said...

Just heard Kim. Keep fighting, you are my hero. Many prayers and lots of love coming your way sweetie.
Christina

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gosso23 said...

Kim, I just got the email from Mary. I am so sorry you are going through this. My heart goes out to you and your family. Just remember your a fighter! If anyone can do this you can. You have a great spirit and so many people that love and care about you. I am one of those people. Just remember that I am always here to talk. Hope your home soon and and feeling better.
Trish

ladyvictoriak said...

Hang in there Kim.  I have faith that you will get through this.  

Viki

sugarsweet056 said...

Just heard your lastest, keep the faith kiddo! Got you in my prayers. {{{ }}}
God bless,
Sugar

sdoscher458 said...

Oh ((Kim)) I wish I could send the calvary in. I know you will keep fighting.
Please know that we all will keep praying.  Love,  Sandi

preciousone25 said...

Another Silent Reader introducing myself..... Mary (Just Mary) mentioned your journal, so I thought I'd come over to offer what inspiration and encouragement I can.... but you seem to have it all together... your attitude is GREAT, that's a huge part of the battle!!!  My prayers are with you!!

Joann

danica1023 said...

Sending prayers!  Stay strong and know that everyone in J-Land and their families are here for you!

tendernoggle said...

OH KIM...MY LITTLE IRISH HERO WARRIOR....YOU KNOW THAT I AM PRAYING FOR YOU SWEETHEART WITH ALL THAT I HAVE....THE LORD BE WITH YOU AND STRENGTHEN YOU ....WE ARE ALL PRAYING...
LOVE ,
CARLENE

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thegirlnexdoor77 said...

Kim, I just wanted to drop in and let you know that I am praying for you, you husband, your children and your family!  Stay strong and keep fighting as I know you will!  Hugs and prayers!  TerryAnn

nhd106 said...

Kim...please stay optimistic like your doctor...we are ALL rooting for you in a big way!
Much love,
Nancy

imgr8phil said...

All of J-land is praying for you.  We are all hoping everything will turn out for the best for you.  Take care.

Phil

fuzilady said...

I am a lurker and used to have a journal as well, I have been reading yours and praying for you. I am a cancer survior myself(twice). Hodgkins.
you are so strong and i just wanted to say I admire you so so much. I am praying you kick this cancer's ass. Get some rest(if you can, I never could sleep in the hospital, to many nurses in and out.

hugs and love
jennifer

if you ever need to chat, you can always email me.

inafrnz247 said...

wishing you comfort, peace and healing strength, Kim.  You are in the hearts, thoughts and prayers of so many.  

Return soon, dear friend.

Michelle

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princesssaurora said...

Kim,

I am mad and beyond words at what Mary has forwarded to us.  Know that I am praying my girlfriend.  Feverishly.  Praying.

be well,
Dawn

bvaneps834 said...

Tendernoggle sent me over. so sorry to hear of your illness and will pray earnestly for God's help and intervention. sounds like your kids, husband and friends are a wonderful support team--include me too!  barb

icewitch96 said...

Kim,

Carlene sent me your way...please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I will check back periodically to see how you're doing!

Hugs,

Jenn
http://journals.aol.com/icewitch96/JennsWorld

chevyz71gurl74 said...

Kim,
Mom told me to check out Carlene and Mary's entries which lead me to here... I am so very sorry girl...I just can't imagine what all you are going through and your family... my heart aches for you... saying many, many prayers for you.... and your family.

Hugs,
Terri

siennastarr said...

Kim you are in my thoughts and prayers, and I just want you to know that all of Jland is praying for you!
Stay strong and keep fighting, my sweet friend!  You are the Warrior!!!

Love you
Jackie

sugerb6 said...

Kim
Saying prayers for you and your family.
Debbie

gandsbrock said...

Kim, love you and praying for you and your family.  God bless you, Stephanie

dragondrops said...

I have been reading your blog for a while now.... I know I havent commented before, lazy or what.    Anyhow, I just want to add my love and prayers for you and your family, take care of yourself and yours.  God bless

therealstephhull said...

(((((Kim))))) We all love you. Stay strong.

~Stephanie~

wickedpink64 said...

Just got the news Kim. Am sending all karma points, positive vibes etc your way - express!  

Hugs

Wendy in Oz

astoriasand said...

Hello there I found you by way of Mary today Monday the 30th April..I have read a few of your postings this morning and you are an inspiration.My prayers are thousandfold for your recovery and all your family too. You are one fabulous courageous lady.You fight the good fight girl.God Is Good.God Bless.Kath
Astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES.

my78novata said...

I read about you at afew entries and IM praying for you. Love your spirit

ksgal3133 said...

Sending you many prayers!

Gretchen
http://journals.aol.com/ksgal3133/LiviniginSavannah2

mutualaide said...

Carlene tells us you are in the hospital.  Good thoughts and hope your way.  I am keeping you in my prayers.

dbaumgartner said...

Mary let me know you were in the hospital.

God bless you and give you the strength you need. Prayers and healing thoughts for you. You are such a sweet spirited person and I pray to see a post from you very soon.

Hugs and much, much healing love!!!!


Deb

brwneyedlady0316 said...

My prayers are with you and your family.  

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klconard1 said...

I found your journal via FrankandMary's link.  I am praying for you, Kim.
loving you
karyl

acoward15 said...

Never give up the fight.

blazensun said...

(((((((((Kim))))))))))   You are in my prayers. You have come to be an insperation to me, stay strong and you will kick this cancers a$$.

Sunny

ajquinn354 said...

Kim I'm sending you many prayers and good thoughts dear....you are so special to all of us, know we care and love you and want you to keep fighting dear. Bless you and your family....you all are in my special thoughts and prayers.  Arlene (AJ)

molly146012 said...

Kim,
PRAYING FOR YOU.  sending [[[[[[[[[[[[[[HUGS]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]].
LOVE, Molly

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bookncoffee said...

Well, gosh, I'm not sure what I would have done.  I guess jumped up and said "who in the heck do you think you are"...I don't fight and hate conflict, but I am fairly brave at telling someone what I think of them.  Everyone knows where they stand with me.  LOL.  
Wow, hope the relatives are doing ok.
Sonya

bookncoffee said...

OH someone has mentioned you are in the hospital....I thought this was a recent entry and that you were back.  But now I see the date.  I have sent a prayer up for you and just wanted you to know.  I will also keep you in my thoughts.  You are so brave and such a wonderful woman and you have deeply affected so many here in J-Land by your positiveness and your love for your Hubby and your family.  Truly a blessing and I hope you will be home soon and that God will heal.  
Sonya

countrylady4071 said...

Dear Kim,
I am so very sorry to hear you are in the hospital.  I have been reading your journal for over a year now, and I feel like I know you.  I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.  I pray God will take care of you, and give you comfort and strength.   Stay strong, Kim.
Big Hugs,
  Pat

ally123130585918 said...

Dear Kim keeping you in my thoughts and prayers ~ "All things are possible" Ally x

jg4949 said...

I will pray for your everyday.  I have been reading your journal and I know this is a very rough time for you and your family.  Please know that sooooooooo  many people are praying for you.

jeane

dornbrau said...

I love you.  I am scared with you.  I would do anything for you.
Jody~

hsauls said...

Can someone get you a laptop up there at the hospital? Are you able to type/email? Can someone do it for you? We're all so worried... sending you lots of get well wishes!
*Hugs*
heather
http://journals.aol.com/hsauls/Tighteningthecorset/

xzasporated1 said...

Stay strong, Kim.  Stay strong.  You can win this fight.  You will win.

~~ jennifer

swferstl said...

Hey, girly-girl!
Keep that stubborn Irish fightin' spirit! Thanks for having an update sent to us. We're all concerned about you being in the hospital, but we're thinking good thoughts & prayin' great prayers! Just keep visualizing the win!!!
lotsa hugs,
sher

dreamingbrwneyes said...

I just read Mary's journal, you are in my every thought and prayer. This battle will be won, I know you are that strong!!

Thinking of YOU

~ Jenny

astaryth said...

Holding you in my thoughts and sending all kinds of positive energy winging towards you.... I know it's only a cyber one, but {{{{{hugs}}}}}
http://journals.aol.com/astaryth/AdventuresofanEclecticMind/
http://adventuresofaneclecticmind.blogspot.com/

csandhollow said...

Kim you have been in my prayers.

roloz88 said...

Kim-Hugs and Prayers to you..........Rosa

emilynblanton said...

Just adding my sincere love and prayers for you and your family - write soon! emily ~

gravydogg55 said...

KIM.
       I PRAY FOR YOU AS WELL AS MYSELF, MY FAMILIES, FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS TO BE HEALED BY OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, THE GREATEST PHYSICIAN.
     THANK HIM FOR GRACE, MERCY, FORGIVENESS AND SALVATION, WISDOM, UNDERSTANDING AND TOLERANCE FOR OTHER CHRISTIANS.
   WE ENJOY FELLOWSHIP WITH EACH OTHER BY WAY OF HIS HOLY SPIRIT.
YOU ARE AMONG FRIENDS, KIM. MAY GOD BLESS WE ALL.       sam

purplehazebarn said...

Kim, just wanted to let you know you continue to be in prayers.  Know you are a fighter, so praying that you will soon see the light at the end of the tunnel.  J Land will not let you down!
LaVern

nightmaremom said...

Sending prayers and good thoughts your way.  
hugs
d

ajquinn354 said...

As always Kim, you are in my thoughts and prayers, bless you dear. Arlene (AJ)

adlessor said...

I heard you were coming home today,   YAH      Welcome home dear.      Dawn
A Couple of Nomads

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rainy35 said...

Heard you were coming home today.  Welcome back!  I've missed ya!
Hugs,
Dana
http://journals.aol.com/rainy35/RoadToSuccess

roloz88 said...

Kim-So glad you're coming home.  I've missed you.  Praying for you and your family.  Rosa

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irenemaeclark said...

Keep your chin up Kim!  My best get well wishes to you.  Keep the faith and keep a prayer in your heart.