Wednesday, June 20, 2007

In response to a comment that was left

Anyone who was really ill should take it and not crave sympathy from the masses, only people with a shallow mind does that...Are you really ill or is it just a shallow attempt to get silly attention if you are ill be ashamed for sharing misery of pretend bravado, you are silly woman either way.
#56 Comment from
misixxxxx - 6/20/07 10:41 AM


 


I crave nothing but more time with my family, I have 4 children who still need their Mother...if that is selfish then call me selfish I want to be here for them! I blog about my experiences so that the next person that is diagnosed with ANY type of cancer won't have to do that long walk alone. I am not shallow or an attention seeker.....my blog only changed tempo when my life did last year when It was found that I had Breast Cancer which even a mastectomy and four months of chemotherapy could not stop now it has invaded other parts of my body including my brain.


 


Now, for you MISIXXXXX I would spend more time trying to help the next person along then trying to knock them down. And if you had an ounce of intelligence you would of scrolled down my side bar and read from the beginning up until now about my Illness (cancer stage IV) before you would have passed judgement on my character ...When all the world can see it is your character that is in question. Shame on you...but something horrible must be wrong with your life if this is how you behave or react to someone else's life threatening illness and if that fact is so...... I PITY YOU ALREADY! You don't ever have to subject yourself to my blog again.... I wish you nothing but the best even if you are incapable of reciprocating.

108 comments:

bashamomma said...

Honey you shouldn't have even given this idiot the time of day.  Remember school is out <eye roll> and all the snerts of the world will be looking for a way to upset innocent people for a thrill.  And if not that, well there are just idiots period ... there's not much else you can say about them.  please don't give this comment a second thought (or any more attention) and you just go on being you, the you we all know the truth about and care about, and leave the snerts to find someone else to play with.
Stacy (lurker warrior patrol) <G>

louiseb411 said...

Some people have nothing better to do than try to upset others, we all think you are doing a fantastic job with your journal and you are an inspiration to us all   Louise xx

icewitch96 said...

That is horrible!!! That person is just wrong for even trying to make you feel bad! I hate people that lurk in other's blogs just to leave rude comments about other people.  They need to get over themselves and get a life.  They are pathetic!

~Jenn~

easteeleco said...

To me.. the attention cravers are those that leave comments that are meant to rankle.  Sorry you were subjected to that not so nice aspect of having a public journal.   I hope more people can learn to just click "next" if they don't agree with a journal that they read.  OR at the very least learn how to disagree without tearing down someone else.  Estela

candlejmr said...

WHO THE HECK IS THAT PERSON????????  How dare she come to YOUR journal and spew her bullshit.  SHE is a shallow person with a shallower mind and if she ever gets sick I hope no one gives her ONE OUNCE of sympathy.

I cannot believe that someone had the nerve to write that to you.

((hugs))
Jeanne

rgossett4195 said...

Sweetie, those types love to troll J-land for attention.  I am thinking they have little itty bitty lives and have nothing better to do then kick dogs and try and run over little old ladies.  Screw 'em!  Remember there is karma in this world!  xox rose~

inquestoftruth said...

Girl, I wish you had ignored the pathetic little person who left you that comment...that's what it deserved.    You don't have to explain yourself...WE know.  Your family and friends know....God knows!   It's your journal after all, I do believe you can say what you want to.   My goodness, this makes me mad.
~Meg

mikev009 said...

I agree with your first two comments.  These people do troll around and they crave attention.  Like a salesman at your door.  If you ignore them they move on to someone else.  However I know their words can hurt and sting.  ~ Mike

ladyvictoriak said...

Please don't give this person (troll) another thought.  When I was doing treatments, I would email everyone regularly to tell them what was happening.  I didn't know about blogs at the time. I think if I would have done a blog, I would have been much more truthful in my feelings regarding cancer and the treatments.  There is nothing wrong with putting yourself out there for people to learn. Again, good luck tomorrow.


Viki

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purplemaniac27 said...

I cannot fathom another "person" having thoughts such as that.  You really responded like a true lady.  Don't let something like that get to you.  You deserve nothing but the best.  You are in my prayers every day.  Take care and God Bless.

mariebm56 said...

Sorry to hear about this person who left this comment.  Unfortunitely misiatscholvik does not know you, never read any of your entries before cancer.  
Does this person realize that you always had a family life with all the normal issues that come with it?  
Does "misiatscholvik" know what a wonderful photographer you are?  
Does "misiatscholvik" know your wonderful humor & wit?  Does misiatscholvik know what a  loving person you are? That you want to share your experiences in hopes that it might help someone else?
I think the only one looking for attention is "misiatscholvik" .
It amazes me how some people can be so ignorant.
Marie

caswellcs1 said...

Hold me back common sense; there is only my next breath stopping me from telling that person to give me a kiss while I turn around and bend, hoping they have a bad back*****. My friend you never have to explain your illness to anyone. most certainly to someone lacking any understanding how iit affects your body, soul and mind. I think some people get off on other's situations when it's not their fault, moreover the hand life dealt them. I guess the sicker your are, the more well it makes them feel. Some of what they say has some truth to it; you are not as mentally sick as they are. Stick with us we care and always keep you in ours prayers. The concern from others you seek you deserve. Fools go where angels fear to tread.

imshadowraven2 said...

awww i am not believing that comment . What an ass whoever you are you do not know Kim. I am so pissed sorry for the language my friend. We as ppl  who love you and want to be with you every step of this fight know the kind of person you are. So keep on doing what you  have been we are here for ya....Robin

lindaggeorge said...

Of course this person is so wrong and I had an inital spurt of anger but this person is obviously mentally deranged in some way, either through illness or bad life experiences, so I hope they soon recover and realise that I at least will forgive the outward expression of their mental trauma.

Linda.

malagutigrrl said...

You know, the world is really full of jerks.  Usually I find them at Wal Mart but apparently that's not the only place they hang out.

kirkbyj05 said...

I DOUBLE DOUBLE! WHAT YOU HAVE JUST REITERATED TO THIS NONENTITY.  I WON'T EVEN GIVE HER A NAME!  I WISH I HAD YOUR BRAVERY IN CONFRONTING THE WRITER OF THE ABOVE COMMENT.  I WOULD HAVE CURLED UP IN A BALL AND WAILED ..."WHAT NEXT!"  THEN DELETED IT. IT WOULD HAVE HURT ME SO MUCH. YOU HAVE SUCH COURAGE KIM AND I AM SO VERY HONOURED TO KNOW SOMEONE LIKE YOU.  KEEP FIGHTING THE FIGHT.   WE ARE ALL WITH YOU.  MUCH LOVE JEANIE XXX

sangrialel said...

What an idiot!!  Linda

princesssaurora said...

OMG... how could someone EVER leave a comment like that!  What an ass!!!!

be well,
Dawn
http://journals.aol.com/princesssaurora/CarpeDiem/

jcole16757 said...

Ah Kim, block the idiot and don't give them a second thought.  Obviously they have nothing better to do with their time than to try and kick someone down.

I had been meaning to comment on your previous goldylocks entry but we've been running here, there and everywhere.  So, with that being said, you are beautiful with or without hair!

emabecmar said...

wow that person truely has a problem. how dare he or she say those things. we all know the truth and you know the truth so that is all that matters. your friends here are always here for you. block that idiot. (((((((((hugs))))))))))
Cindy

lionesscarol1 said...

Misiatscholvik is a sad excuse for a human being.  What goes around, comes around and he/she will have a turn some day, only then will the realization come how meaningful life is.  I wouldn't waste my time responding to this azz Kim.  
Hugs, Carol
LionessCarol1@aol.com

pharmolo said...

Kim,
That person (?) is not worthy of your ire.

sybilsybil45 said...

Hi There our Lovely warrior,  keep up the fight, he/she is not worthy of even a moments thought.e/she is sure a sad person.  Love and hugs  sybil xx

ashleekr said...

Kim, please don't let someone obviously eaten up with misery bring you down.  Block the fool and keep on writing - I am still on the journey with you!  Stay strong and keep fighting!!
Ash

tendernoggle said...

This person needs a can of woop-ass opened up on them in the worse sort of way...but that's ok...God knows who they are and believe me...in the GOOD BOOK....HE said "Vengence is mine." and HE meant it!
BLOCK AND DELETE THEM KIM..they are not worth your time.
love ya,
carlene
ps....Whoever left that comment needs a lesson in correct ENGLISH...sort of lets you know the mental state they are in.

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dbaumgartner said...

How pathetic. Folks like that need to look within themselves and find out why they are so miserable that they have to try and make everyone else miserable.

Good bye to bad rubbish. You don't need that kind of mess.

Hugs to you,

Deb

grodygeek said...

Gee, I normally only read your alert, not always the full entry. Yet, I never sensed you were a plea for sympathy. You just shared your story, the good and the bad. In a rather matter of fact tone. Sure you are disappointed it came back. That you have to lose your hair again. I'll bet a lot of folks think the same.

I've also seen or read many times how thinking positively helps defeat cancer and other significant illnesses. I think writing about you and your story is part of that. You talk in terms of when, not if.

So I'd take the comment from this individual and ignore it. It is simple if they feel that way. Don't read. It it bugs you, not visit the journal. Plain and simple. Putting down anyone with an illness is just rude and mean spirited. If you have to put some one truly sick down to lift yourself up, you just don't realize how sick you are. And remember, karma's a bitch: what goes around, comes around.

mumma4evr said...

I was going to call this person an ass but asses are better than that person! It obviously does not know you!  You give strength to those around you , you rejoice withthose of us when we get good news!  YOu  are amazing, you are my hero!Becky

shauneenie said...

I speak Russian....Misiatscholvik actually means....Iamcretinwithnoheart.Thought you would appreciate a translation :-) (roughly translated of course) Hugs, Shauneen

brandyp0509 said...

Kim never once have I thought you put this out there for "sympathy" in fact I felt it was more for your own need to get it out there and I think you sharing your experiences with everyone may educate and encourage those going through something similar.  It is best to ignore the mentally ill that enjoy trying to knock people and I just know there is a special place in hell for people like that.  Lots of love, Brandy

sdoscher458 said...

Oh, Kim it takes all kinds of people and this one is a definite jerk. Just imagine how miserable a fool this one is to have to go into another person's journal to vent her venom.  Block her, ignore her comments...I believe if something were to happen to her she wouldn't have anyone there for her as she is so hateful.....love, Sandi

deshelestraci said...

Bravo!  Well said.
Traci

klconard1 said...

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katie39041 said...

I am shocked at what this person as wrote. Its disgusting and the Author should be ashamed of them selfs
love and hugs
Katie

canyonsun04 said...

I am SPEECHLESS (doesn't happen often) some people just have the last rude nerve sticking out of there @ss. Screw her, ignorance is not a justification to be this outwardly pathetic and rude.
Hugs babe
Ang

jchaleconst said...

What a jerk.  You handled them well.  Peace be with you.

randlprysock said...

Very well said.  Hugs,
Lisa

jerseygirlphotos said...

unbelievable.  silly silly woman writing such nonsense to you.  

lmitc89854 said...

Hard to believe there are people like that out there. You certainly did not deserve those comments!  The rest of us admire your strength in the face of adversity and your humor and wish you well.

lisbrws said...

Something is seriously wrong and dimented about that person. I'm sorry that a comment like that had to come your way.

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nhd106 said...

Ugh....so sad that there are people out there like that.  So glad there are people around like YOU, however.
Hugs,
Nancy

sunnyside46 said...

oh my goodness
reminds me of a saying, "The dogs may bark but the caravan passes on"
LOve,
Marti

rollinghillsides said...

How this angered me!    Go to HELL misiatscholvik, you SUCK, bigtime !!!!!!!  What an ASS!   Judy

inafrnz247 said...

This "person" does not even worthy enough to be in your thoughts, Kim.  Some people cannot make it through the day without putting someone else down in order to feel better about themselves and their own situations.  It was hurtful, it was cruel and it was completely uncalled for and false.  

We all know you.  We, who love you, know why you share your heart and we appreciate you and all that you do share.  This person is shallow and thoughtless beyond belief.  You are right to have pity on them.  I sure do.

Hold your chin high and keep your heart open.  We are all beside you.

Michelle

mccine said...

FTB,that is all I have to say about the remarks.

dwhee70041 said...

Kim,  I'm surprised you took the time to respond.  I admire you, your husband and your family for the strength found in all of you.  I know you are having a profound impact on others.
keep smiling,
David

ktkamanski said...

Thank you for being who you really are "YOU"!!!!! Pay no mind to those without one! Hope your day has brought you lots of sunshine! Take care of you and yours!
Katie
http://journals.aol.com/ktkamanski/AlwaysBelieve/

ajquinn354 said...

Kim, don't wste a precious second dwelling on remarks like that.  Apparently that person doesn't have a life of caring and compassion so they're the losers in life, not you or all of us that care. You've been through so much with such a strong, wonderful "Warrior" attitude, so what you say or how you express your thoughts or feelings or worries touch all of our hearts. Too bad your journal person doesn't have a heart that shows caring.....what a waste of life for that person.We who care, are there for you always as we know you'd be here for us in the same caring, lvoing fashion....your words personally always touch my heart...Arlene (AJ)

mosie1944 said...

Unbelievable.  Don't give it another thought.

littlelady1699 said...

kim,

you should of deleted that comment..that IT" needs to go back to the rock it came out of. how dare them accuse you of faking this!!! hope they never have to go though this.

love ya'

patty

irenemaeclark said...

You go girl!  Get well, stay well and lead a very, very long life.  God bless you and yours.  Trials are hard when we are going through them, but they sure build charactor!  

heavenlybama said...

WTF???  I wouldn't have responded myself but bravo at your response.  I'd block this bitch!
Hugs to ya Kim,
D
http://journals.aol.com/heavenlybama/journey-to-success

thinkingoutloud said...

MISIATSCHOLVIK  has no shame.
Shame on that sorry ass person.

Rock on Kim!
Love ya-
Niki

sunflowerkat321 said...

This entry shoves me out of lurkdom Kim.

Anyone who has read a single entry here knows that you are not about sympathy OR attention.  Yours is a story of facing a difficult reality with humor and optimism and strength.  Misiatscholvik is who really needs some sympathy.  I feel sorry that anyone can read what you share here and be so blind or callous (or both) to not recognize that despite what challenges you have faced and still have ahead,  you revel in the many special miracles of life.  Let that beautiful spirit continue to shine...I know it is your BEST medicine.

With love -
Kat

plieck30 said...

Well Kim your readers/friends are showing that person (person?). Just look at the comments already and I'm sure there will be many more. As they say its your journal and we like to hear how you are doing. Paula

shoot4mephoto said...

Kim you are an Awesome inspirational woman! "A Power of Example"..In regards to the ignorant, mean comment..Sometimes it aint even worth wasting a bit of precious energy on reacting to such poison! Just hit DELETE!! ROCK ON LADY...I LOVE YA... I THINK WE ALL DO......
LOVE LISA

cyn4mc2856 said...

Gee, was the moon full in that horrible person's part of the world, or what?  So, sorry to read this Kim.  There's just no explanation, nor excuse for some "people".  

This is someone who's obviously a very miserable being.  I think their posting reflects how shallow, bitter, and sad they are.  It would seem they're simply a shell of a being; and whatever may be inside them includes a very black heart, mind and soul.  The "spew of venom" they left in your journal was just a one- sided, tunnel vision, narrow minded...opinion; and we all know what opinions are like.  ; )  People like this are so unhappy, they only way the recognize a mere shimmer of "happiness", is by projecting their misery onto someone else.  Fortunately, you're a lady who didn't fall prey to this play for attention.  

Kim, you handled this so very well, with much class.  Your poster obviously is classless, and is the attention seeker...not you.  They knew the post would bring your friends out in force, a lot responding in anger.  Yes, words hurt...and sometimes very, very deeply.  Yet, in this case I think "consider the source" is certainly appropriate.  This sad "person" is to be pitied.  It's hard to imagine having to live day to day with such negativity, bitterness, hatered in one's self.

God bless you, your family and your journey!

Cam

jckfrstross said...

i have always wondered why some can't say anything nice. gezzz if you can't say anything nice then say nothing at all

Deb

dklars said...

BRAVO!!! Well said, Kimberleigh!!!!!
~~Kath~~

ab45yui said...

Kim I would not even give this person the attention it is seeking based on leaving such a negative comment.  The person is illiterate in thinking and emotion.  Pity it, because it is a shell of a person without a heart.

ab45yui said...

Kim I would not even give this person the attention it is seeking based on leaving such a negative comment.  The person is illiterate in thinking and emotion.  Pity it, because it is a shell of a person without a heart.

loves2fishnboat said...

Kim, don't pay any attention to this person, it's not worth the time to type a response beyond that which you have already posted.  Save your energy for more positive things and don't give them a second thought.  Peace.

swferstl said...

OMG!!! What a jack***!!!
You go, girl! I'm so proud of you for standing up to this ignorant jerk! I hope you blocked him/her from leaving anything in the future. Lord help this person if he/she is ever ill!
many, many hugs,
sher   http://journals.aol.com/swferstl/wunzuponatime/

stepjammer said...

Oh dear.  Don't pay any attention to that person.

You should be proud of yourself for what you have overcome and continue to overcome for your family.  When I was diagnosed, I told my oncologist I would do anything, I didn't care about my boobs and hair as long as I could be there for my family.  

Every second that your children have with you and you with them is a precious gift from God.  When they grow older, and hopefully we will still be here, but there is no guarantee for anyone, your written words will show them that you are a person in your own right in addition to being their wonderful mother.  

Thank you for sharing your feelings and experiences.  You will never know how many in your situation you have helped to be stong and get through the difficult days by being strong yourself.

Anyone who has been where you are knows you aren't pretending.   Others can't necessarily understand.  

Linda

http://members.aol.com/stepjammer/index.html



ldybutterfly1128 said...

Well, it's a good thing I'm a Christian or else I would tell that person to kiss my ASS!!!  I beg your parden, but my flesh just took over and I could not contain my anger.  The odasity of that person!

Kim, I am so absolutely proud of who you are and what you represent to those of us who care for someone who is walking the lonely road of cancer treatment.  You represent goodness and kindness and the fact that you share your experiences with all of us tells me that you are one of the most selfLESS people in this crazy, mixed up and senseless world.

Thank you for all that you do and for who you are!

God Bless You!!!

Jamie

Excuse me while I go and leave a comment for that lost soul.

sugerb6 said...

Kim, when I lost my lil sis to cancer I was in a state of depression that I wish on no one. I could not sleep, had no type of energy, all I wanted to do was lie in the shadows of darkness. My daughter Terri introduced me to journals, the first link she gave me was yours, she told me you had breast cancer, I started reading your journal from your first entry to the point of the current entry at the time. Terri also gave me links to other journals when she would hear of someone who had cancer. Oh, the tears I have shed and in the process each of you have brought me through the grief one day at a time as I read each new entry in aww. Though I tend to be a lurker and do not comment often you have been a big part of my life. From my heart to yours I thank you for being you. Have I told you lately? I LOVE YOU!
Debbie

dplkjl said...

I'm not sure what makes someone like that...other than a true lack of love in their lives.  Really sad when you think about it, that the person who is accusing you of looking for something from the masses when they are doing just that by making a crappy comment.  I think your situation touched a nerve with them and touched them in some way in order for them to feel like they had to knock you.  Sounds like they are reaching out for some attention, some people feel like they sound smart when they are insulting others.  Sad thing is this person looks and sounds like a moron to me.   I would say they should be ashamed of themselves, but if you read between the lines in their comment, seems like they already ashamed of themselves (hence the hate.)

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mpnaz58 said...

I am sooooo sorry this person felt the need to bash you in this way!!  I cannot believe that there are people who are so hurtful, and plain evil.  Know that people like that are few and far between...I'd like to think so, anyway.  Kimberleigh, you ARE a brave woman, and a gentle soul.  Take care...
xoxo ~Myra

cvgflydis said...

I raise a glass to you and toast you for the person you are to ALL of us that ARE following your story.  All you have to do is read how many of your followers came to your defense.....although I do not know what was said.  I continue to read you everyday, and WISH my MOM had had you in her life.......to brighten her life, like you have done for so many others.

Much love and prayers Kim. You stay in my thoughts!
Angel ^i^

emmapeeldallas said...

And you have CLASS...LOTS of IT...and BRAVERY...not so for this coward who left this comment, because when I clicked on the name, wanting to make a few comments of my own, I was informed there is no one by that name.

Hang in there, Kimberleigh.  You are one terrific woman.

Judi

gehi6 said...

It's hard to believe there is anyone who would comment like that in response to a fairly young person struggling with such effort to fight a life threatening illness.  I just hope you can forget fast for it does seem like that person is unbalanced somehow in a serious way, with a deficiency of compassion a terrible lacking in the spirit. Sorry you had to feel this pain, too, when you are enduring the gamut.  I am sure there are many out there who would shield you in every way they could so those poisonous barbs could not get through. May you heal and be assured that many many do not feel that way but wish you every moment of precious life your courage can wrend.  We know what you are fighting for. May you have peace. Gerry  

olachiaclan said...

Oh K, what are we to do with those such as this? They are merely self centered and shalllow in their attemps to be wise. Saddly I have dealt personaly with a friend such as this blogger and sadly there are more than of them out there we'd like to admit. Don't let this petty person get you down. You are a very strong, courageous woman who is running through the fires of hell right now. Stay strong my fellow sister in arms. You are a inspitation and you are a hero!
Christina
http://journals.aol.com/olachiaclan/the-uniboob-club/

PS I am going to repost an entry with misiatescholvik especially in mind, :)

astoriasand said...

I just do not believe what I am reading here Kim.What PLANET is she or he from.Certainly not ours.I know what I would do with that person.Yes Kim afraid I have a hot fiery temper too when wound up,and I am so angry to read this comment they have left you.And I am not only fiery, when I have to return suitcases Kim LOL!! Prayers being said thousandfold as usual for you and all your family and I best say a very long extra one for this lunatic above too from Cuckoo Land.Haaaaaaaaa.Sorry I have had to get so angry,but I need to express my anger at times like this.You Take Care Dear.Thanx a million for your visit to mine and comment.I do realy appreciate every one I get.Have as lovely a Thursday as possible.Take Care God Bless Kath
Astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES

clochesoumise said...

For some time now I had wanted to sit and write to you. Forgive me that it has taken so long. I wanted you to know that you touched me. There are many diseases that affect human kind not just physical,  some are emotional,  some are mental. After reading the comment of such unkindness, I would add stupidity to that as well.  There are just as many types of death to face. To be human means that we each owe a death however it is to come. The strength of your will to survive has become an encouragement to me in my own trials. Each day I look for the alert from your journal and each time I see one I celebrate ... life ... with you, for you, because of you.

You are indeed a beautiful woman, in heart, in grace, in strength, in love, in humor and from places within, many could only dream of. In my dreams you will live forever.

"What makes the word 'human' so damned wonderful? You're always mourning your humanity, denying yourself the power and privilege that are yours by right for fear of becoming inhuman. You fight to keep from doing what is natural for you, simply because you pride yourself on being human. What is being human? ..."
"I was standing on the mountaintop with Satan whispering in my ear. And I was weak."
~Nancy A Collins Sunglasses After Dark

Unknowing
unsurity
of what is to come
That delicious wandering
of wonder
Feeling with more
than the touch of fingers
The heart
so afraid
to be hurt
unable
to stop itself
from plunging ahead
The throbbing ache
of the loins
desperate
hunger
to sate
the glorious heat
To be human
is to know thirst
to be unwilling,
unable,
incapable
of finding enough
to drink
to it's fill
though always
forever trying
~hers

caromarls said...

This misia@#$%^%$#$%^^&&%$ whoever he/she is, obviously hasn't read your journal from the start when you discovered you had cancer!  She/he/it should get their facts straight before making such a harsh comment to you. You are one of the bravest and most inspirational people I know.  I even spoke to you about one of my colleagues who had discovered that she had a malignant lump in her breast. Keep up what you are doing because you are inspiring many and bringing laughter to a situation that can bring others to tears.  We all love you!  ~ Caroline ~
http://journals.aol.com/caromarls/ANewAdventure

bookncoffee said...

Yes I believe that we all see who the silly woman is after that entry.  Misiaphhhhhttt whatever it is.  I would say that person didn't even deserve a response.  LOL.  Perhaps this person, thing, or IT will fly back to planet "ICKY" and take her stinger with her.  Someone grab the insect spray...quick.....
LOL  LOL LOL  Truly I do feel sorry for that person, thing, or IT now b/c God has a plan for the person, thing, or IT's life, and I wouldn't want to know what that is.  Hopefully they will change their ways before it's too late.
Sonya

astaryth said...

Ewwwwwwww! It's a good thing this is the internet and she can hide behind an anonymous name... otherwise..... How DARE she! I'll bet she just popped in randomly, read one entry and left her snippy little comment and then moved on to the next random place to try to cause trouble!!

I've been without internet access for almost 3 weeks (long story), and I get it back and run over here and find.... that! sheesh!

I was glad to look back on the last few entries and read all of the good news though!

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xomywayox said...

OHMIGAWD!!! Kim please, please let me stomp a mud-in-their-ass!? I swear I will not  kill them, I'll just hurt them a little. Stinches and bandaids is all there gonna need! Oh man am I pissed! Psssh

Ok, as a lady with grace. You handle yourself wonderful as always. Love You Pumpkin!!!!

YA-YA!!!!!!! Brenda

sshufeldt32 said...

Hey demandn:  I wouldn't waste another minute thinking about or worrying about what misiatscholvik said.  She must not have ever had to deal with this disease herself, or with any family member or friend, or she would understand just how important these blogs are.  There is nothing like a support system to keep your spirits up and the stress level down.  Your response was wonderful, and I applaud you for taking the high road!  Keep the faith and KEEP FIGHTING!!!!!  Trish E's sister, Sue.

midwestvintage said...

The person is a twit and sounds like a young twit at that.  Thanks for sharing this journey.  I have recommended your site to a few of my patients.  You are speaking for what many woman are going through.  We are all proud of you.  I would MISIATSCHOLVIK has never done anything worth being proud of or worth fighting for.  Like a pesky bug swat it away and give the twit no more thought.

                  Julie

bowyerlori said...

KIM, SOOOO GLAD YOU ARE DOING WELL HUN. I WAS WORRIED ABOUT YOU AND LET EVRYONE KNOW THAT IF THEY HEARD FROM YOU TO LET ME KNOW BECAUSE I WAS UNABLE TO GET TO YOUR JOURNAL THE OTHER DAY. AS FAR AS THIS TWIT GOES, YOU HANDLED YOURSELF A LOT COOLER THAN I WOULD HAVE. PEOPLE LIKE THAT ARE JUST MISERABLE WITH THEIR OWN LIFE AND LOVE TO BE HURTFUL TO ANYONE AT ANYTIME. IGNORE THE ASSHOLE FROM HERE ON OUT. AND ME, WELL, I SHALL LEAVE A LITTLE NOTE TO THEM ON HOW I THINK THEY BEHAVED. HUGS TO YOU KIMMY..........LORI

layla44808 said...

Kim, I wish I could meet that woman..I would have NO problem putting her in her place..I have only been journaling for a short time, but I do know that your journal is one that I look forward to . And if She doesn't like it, then She shouldn't read it..
I know you won't give her another thought...You have too many good things to think about...
Take care,
Sheri

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cgtperkins said...

OMG.....are they just plain CRAZY or just an IDIOT??? Im sorry you had to get such a thing from that dumb arse. You handled that much better than I would have. Bless you.
Hugs
Carrie

totallymentalben said...

It's probably human nature to hear the one guy in the bleachers booing when the other 50,000 people in the stadium are on their feet cheering for you, but take heart Kim. Listen to the legions here who adore you, and ignore misiatscholvik. A post like that is a sure sign that someone is desperately crying out for attention, harbors strong self-loathing tendencies and fears of abandonment, and has a small pee-pee.

Ben
http://journals.aol.com/totallymentalben/better-left-unsaid

csandhollow said...

That poor soul. Kim I know I don't comment much anymore. I am sorry for that. I pray foryou daily. You are an incredible woman.

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jmorancoyle said...

    Blow that person off. Whatever hurt that person causes with his/her remarks will come back and bite them right in the a.... What comes around goes around.
Jude
http://journals.aol.com/jmorancoyle/MyWay

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cste609371 said...

Hi Kimberlee,  Your blogg helps so many with cancer too, shows them a better more positive way to live, That comment she left was uncalled for, she must not read you much as you DO NOT crave sympathy ever. You have many friends here, she is jelous...You inforned and educated me and many others, I have a mamo set up, thanks to YOU... We dont pitty you, we all care for you generally & want to help you alone in our little way of sending hugs & friendship over the internet...
   I am not much into this journal thing... I used to read Pam's/ onegirlsheadnoise. As I really only read two  now: Natshia & yours. She actually told me about yours 6 months ago. So I have been reading a while. I just wanted to tell you that  I do wish you the best of luck in your treatments & that I so admire your courage and your attitude.   I see 3 reasons you are so successful here, Number 1 is your family & friends, with love  strength. Number 2 is YOU (your attitude and courage and personality)
Number 3 you are as stubborn as I, you are a survivor and a winner too. I just know you will survive this too. Take a bow girl, you are amazing!  I do hope, if my fate ever turns to cancer, I will remember all that I have learned from you, and live with cancer with the grace and attitude I have learned form you...


LOVE TO HEAR BACK FROM YOU,
MS. CHERYL MAGUY STEWART
CSte609371@aol.com

aimer said...

Misixxxxx is a misanthropic idiot. I will try and take your higher path and pity this sad person. You have helped so many people by your willingness to write so honestly about your illness. Thank you.--Sheria
http://journals.aol.com/aimer/on-my-mind/

nelishianatl said...

I am appalled that anyone would do this to you!  My situation isn't even in the same league of problems and I have been getting anonymous hateful comments too.  Your response is still that of one tough cookie, and you know Kim that is just not true.  So many, many people love you and look up to you for  how triumphant and valiant you've been.  What a creep that would say such a thing!!!

You know we love ya and you go girl for your response!

Nelishia
http://journals.aol.com/nelishianatl/WishingandHoping/

rbrown6172 said...

{{{{kim}}}}  that's only one comment out of so many positive ones you get.  i really hope you have shaken this off and moved forward!  comments like that are definitely not worth your time and energy!
gina

chevyz71gurl74 said...

Kim...
Don't waste an ounce of energy on pathetic people like that...
You have been such an inspiration in many lives here in Jland...
including mine...and we love you for being so open and honest with us throughout your cancer journey!

Love and Hugs,
  Terri

lisa41076 said...

Kim, you are an amazing lady, do'nt listen to that old troll, Hugs Lisa

farrahmichelle07 said...

misisxxxxx,

I have only recently started reading this blog.  This woman with her children is living her life and talking about it the way she sees fit.  How interesting and enticing and encouraging for any one to do.  What is cowardly, is for someone to criticize and try to hurt her.  Only people that have too much time, and too much pain of their own, that they are avoiding dealing with, go out of their way to try to criticize and humiliate another human being.  This woman and her family, they are very brave!  She is expressing how she feels and what she is going through.  Everyone has a story.  To talk about it is lovely.  To feel it is even better.  Misixxxxx I suggest that you stop reading blogs and making horrible comments and start reading your own story.  Nobody wants to hear your negative comments.

bvaneps834 said...

Just got back from trip to Mayo's and catching up on 84 Allerts. Was floored to read what that  misixx person had to say. THEY say it takes ALL kinds--but she/he is one kind we can do without! Barb

molly146012 said...

Kim,
{{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}
Molly

gandsbrock said...

Kim,

I know I'm a late commenter, just saw this and couldn't let it pass.  I'm sorry that you got hit by a troll.  There's all kinds on the internet, and a bunch of those kinds are not nice.  Hugs to you.  We know that you are sincere.  Good grief.  Since you posted this, then maybe it's off your chest and long packed away.
Stephanie

kidzmakeucrazy said...

OMG
I can't believe that little BITCH.

I hoped you blocked her...

wishing you nothing but good things

MELISSA

mutualaide said...

I want to sit down and cry ... then get up and fight.  How can anyone be so mean?

whoopiepoopsie said...

Somethings are not to be believed.  That posting was from one 'sick-ticket' alright.  Please believe that she(he?) is not typical of those of us who are privileged enough to be able to read your very personal journey with cancer.  I think you know that the vast majority of us care about you and want the best for you.  You are a brave person with a Mother's heart and that's enuf said!  God bless you.

briannadalejrfan said...

you are not selfish you are kind and keep fighting !